[SPARK-10300] [BUILD] [TESTS] Add support for test tags in run-tests.py.

This change does two things:

- tag a few tests and adds the mechanism in the build to be able to disable those tags,
  both in maven and sbt, for both junit and scalatest suites.
- add some logic to run-tests.py to disable some tags depending on what files have
  changed; that's used to disable expensive tests when a module hasn't explicitly
  been changed, to speed up testing for changes that don't directly affect those
  modules.

Author: Marcelo Vanzin <vanzin@cloudera.com>

Closes #8437 from vanzin/test-tags.