## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Fixing the way how `SPARK_HOME` is resolved on Windows. While the previous version was working with the built release download, the set of directories changed slightly for the PySpark `pip` or `conda` install. This has been reflected in Linux files in `bin` but not for Windows `cmd` files.

First fix improves the way how the `jars` directory is found, as this was stoping Windows version of `pip/conda` install from working; JARs were not found by on Session/Context setup.

Second fix is adding `find-spark-home.cmd` script, which uses `find_spark_home.py` script, as the Linux version, to resolve `SPARK_HOME`. It is based on `find-spark-home` bash script, though, some operations are done in different order due to the `cmd` script language limitations. If environment variable is set, the Python script `find_spark_home.py` will not be run. The process can fail if Python is not installed, but it will mostly use this way if PySpark is installed via `pip/conda`, thus, there is some Python in the system.

## How was this patch tested?

Tested on local installation.

Author: Jakub Nowacki <j.s.nowacki@gmail.com>

Closes #19370 from jsnowacki/fix_spark_cmds.