This PR sets the java.io.tmpdir for CRAN checks and also disables the hsperfdata for the JVM when running CRAN checks. Together this prevents files from being left behind in `/tmp`

## How was this patch tested?
Tested manually on a clean EC2 machine

Author: Shivaram Venkataraman <shivaram@cs.berkeley.edu>

Closes #19589 from shivaram/sparkr-tmpdir-clean.